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  • CHRISTMAS LOSS…

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    Merry Christmas? How do you make it through the holidays after the loss of a loved one?

    This year my holiday spirit is, well less than stellar. Which does not bode well in my house since my husband is already on the naughty list for not being a fan of the holidays any year. When my cheer’o’meter is low, i can usually fill it up rather quickly. This year however, there is just nothing in the tank.

    My family is dealing with loss over this holiday season. Unfortunately I have experience dealing with loss at this time of year. This will be my eighteenth Christmas without my older brother. I remember quite vividly how hard the first few were, Christmas was his favourite time of year. If ugly sweater parties were a “thing” when he was alive, he would of been the life of the party. He always was the life of the party.

    It never gets any easier, it just gets different.

    A few short months ago I lost my brother-in-law suddenly to brain cancer. By sudden I mean he was diagnosed on a Sunday and passed away the following Monday. No signs, no symptoms, no cure. He was 47 years old, husband, son, brother, father of two and my husbands only sibling. It was to state it mildly, devastating. Losing a sibling is not something I want to have in common with anyone.

    At the time of my brothers death I had no children, I found out I was pregnant with my first child two weeks after his passing. This time there are teenagers and young children involved. Which means questions and a whole lot of them. In this time of “Festive Fun” there is also G.U.I.L.T, a whole lot of it.

    “How can I smile when I just lost my dad?”
    “How can I be happy when my brother can’t be here?”
    “I can’t go to the Christmas party, I will bring everybody down.”
    “Because Uncle Dave is in heaven does he know what Santa is bringing me for Christmas?”

    Like I said, a whole lot of questions.

    I am not a physiologist or expert in this field. I didn’t even really want to write this article. After all I am the “fun girl” and let’s face it, there is nothing fun about this. But it IS important, it’s important to share and know that you are not alone.

    So…

    I turned to the only expert I know…GOOGLE… I read through a bunch of articles, tips, strategies and how t.o.’s. I then thought about how I have managed the holidays all these years with the feeling of loss, of something just not being quite right.

    In my VERY UN-expert opinion. Here are my thoughts on how to get through the Holidays after a loss.

    CRY …Cry whenever and wherever the hell you want. There is no RIGHT or WRONG way to grieve, EVER. I remember bawling, openly, at the diner scene in Christmas Vacation. Sobbing when the turkey exploded open because it was always a favourite movie of my brothers.

    GIVE BACK… I think this is my favourite tip. GIVING truly heals, it will not only help heal you but it will help heal those you are giving too. If you don’t have time to volunteer, pay for someones order in the drive-through. Carry someones packages to their car. Let someone ahead of you in line. There are SO many ways to give on a daily basis…Do it all year round you won’t regret it.

    BE SELFISH… I know…Kind of doesn’t quite work with tip #2. What I mean here is, take care of yourself. Get lot’s of rest, don’t try and do everything. This is a time when you really need to lean on these who love you. If the offer…TAKE IT!

    Don’t SKIP it …This is important especially if you have young children involved. If there was something you did at the holidays when the person you lost was alive, STILL do it. They would want you to. It is also important to teach the kids that all the good things about that person did not die with them.

    BE HONEST ..with yourself and others. There is no need to fake it here. You and others in your family are broken. There is a HUGE piece of what you knew to be so…gone. If you don’t feel like doing something, then don’t. But be sure to tell those around you why. Don’t keep it all in, let people in. If it happens to be the cashier at the grocery store who notices you openly sobbing as you pack your bags…then so be it.

    The ultimate goal here is not to put on a “Brave Face” for everyone else. It is about spending the time with those you love and healing together. It’s ok to laugh, cry and get angry. You don’t HAVE to listen to carols or deck the halls. You DO however have to get up every day and participate in life. It just so happens that life around this time of year, is supposed to be a little more J.O.L.LY. If you can’t find the jolly, no worries…Start with the J…in time the rest of the letters will come.

    Wishing you and yours a wonderful and J. holiday season.

    Cheers XO

  • HAPPY HOSTESS 2015 EDITION

    AUTHOR: // CATEGORY: beer, christmas, cocktail deeva, cocktails, coffee, cooking, drink, entertaining, fabulous, family, Holiday, home, lifestyles, mixologist, mixology, Party, recipe, recipes, shoes, social media, Stiegl, Tips, Toronto, trend hunter, trends, twitter, Uncategorized, wine

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    IT’S PARTY SEASON…!!! Well in my world it is always party season but this is the season to the Hostess with the Most’ess…

    It is also the season to bring those wonderful hostesses a special little something to thank them for their FABOOSH hospitality…

    Here are what two of my FAVE Hosts have to say about the art of gift giving…

    The Fab Mindy Lockhart , a.k.a…The Gracious Girl…gave me her take on the holiday hostess gift…

     “A hostess gift is a token of gratitude for the invite & all of the work your host/hostess has put into the event. Keep in mind that it is not a Thank-you for the event itself. Etiquette tells us that we follow-up with a Thank-you after the event & that should be sent in the same manner as the invite was extended. For paper invites a paper Thank-You, email invites and email thank you and so on.” 

    I also asked the ever Fabulous design duo Colin and Justin their thoughts on giving hostess gifts…

    “When you think of all the effort your hostess is putting in to make sure you have a fabulous evening, it’s nice to take along a cute wee present. It doesn’t have to be a big deal, maybe some homemade cookies, a scented candle (a candjhome.com, candle of course!) or a lovely jar of home made jam. Just something to show you’ve thought of them and all their efforts to make you feel at home. We sometimes take a swag bag with perfume samples, candy and a lottery scratch card or two. It’s fun to be the gifter instead of the giftee!”

    Here is my list of my FAVE FABOOSH Hostess Gifts for 2015…

     

    Be sure to check out some passed lists for more FABOOSH gift Ideas.. Happy Hostess…

    1. For your Cocktail and Film Loving HostGone with the Gin by Tim Federle

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    “Perfect gift for film buffs and a terrific twist on movie nights, Gone with the Gin is the ultimate cocktail book for die-hard silver screen aficionados who prefer to be shaken, not stirred. Included within are 50 delicious drinks—paired with winking commentary on history’s most quotable films—plus an all-star lineup of drinking games, movie-themed munchies, and illustrations throughout.”

    This book adds a fun new twist on cocktail books and film books in one. The recipes are smart , easy and most entertaining to read. FAB value at 18.99$ on Amazon.ca

    2. Bailey’s Vanilla Cinnamon

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    It is rare that I enjoy a flavored anything. I have to say, I like this Bailey’s better than the original . This has now become a staple in my Saturday morning coffee.

    1. BEER!

    Well not just any beer…

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    Put together a basket or 6 pack of fab unique craft beers. Or beers from other parts of the world for your host to enjoy. It is always fun to try new things and so many people will not be as adventurous when buying for themselves.

    Check out McClelland Imports for some more FAB beer suggestions. Also if you are in ST Jacobs be sure to check out Block Three brewing and the Elora Brewing company in Elora Ontario. Be sure to google craft brewers in your local area to see what you have available to you.

    1. Criollo Liquor

    This has made my list before and is back…Always a crowd pleaser!

    Criollo_312-400x794Available in Salted Caramel, Chocolate Raspberry Truffle and the new Bourbon Dark Chocolate. Check out their website for FAB recipes.

    1. A little something Special… Strawberry Champagne Lollipops from Barneys New York

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    These are a whimsical gift that mat seem useless and silly…But really, don’t we all need a little more indulgence in our lives these days. AND… I promise you no one will bring the same gift as you.

    1. Again for your cocktail enthusiast … BITTERS!

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    I love the selection from The Bittered Sling…however there are many widely available and at a really great price point for a hostess gift….

    Like 66 Gilead Distillery Bitters available at BYOB Cocktail Emporium.

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    1. For a little Luxury… I adore Pelle Soap Stones

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    Soap Stones are handcrafted glycerin soap intended for both use and display. Consisting of all natural, vegetable-based soap ingredients, the Soap Stones are made and faceted by hand in a Brooklyn studio.

    1. Headed to a holiday kids party… I got ya covered… I am in love with these Hair ties and hair bands made by a young lady named Story…

    10275923_10154861147835076_4257456129882445401_nStory chooses different charities to donate portions of her profits too..can you say.. TAKE MY MONEY!! For more info and to order email info@clippo.ca …Delivery is included!

    If you are headed to my house for a party these top my gift list..just saying…

    1. If you are pinching your dollar and Scents… (see what I did there…)

    Belle Soy candles available at chapters are the perfect gift for you happy hostess.

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    1. For the avid reader I am loving Reading Sox..also available at Chapters.. I don’t think I would ever take them off.

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    1. I love me a good Caesar and it all comes down to the Mix.. and my go to is Walter’s All Natural Mix …  Small batch with NO Monosodium Glutamate (MSG), artificial colors, and Glucose / Fructose (high fructose corn syrup) …Makes drinking healthy..right?

    walter_trio1Grab a gift basket and add a jar of Matt and Steve’s Extreme Bean for the perfect Caesar experience…A gift any host would love!

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    Finally my FAVE gift to give…

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    Unicef has 14 Survival Gifts available all under $20 These are more than just gifts, they are small miracles. You can send things like bed nets, anti-malaria drugs or pencils for a school. Simply buy your hostess one of these little miracles and you can send her an e-card or their is even a printable card you can take to the party with you…I gaurantee it will be the best holiday gift and one your hostess will never forget..

     

    What is your favorite hostess gift to give or receive…?? I am always looking for FABOOSH ideas…CHEERS!

    Happy Holidays to you and yours.

     

  • BE OUR GUEST!!

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    As some of you may know I have recently started a new adventure in my life…Because I wasn’t busy enough…I decided to buy a Bed and Breakfast!

    Not just any bed and breakfast, mine has a bit of a twist to it…naturally…

    Olde Bridge Place is NOT a traditional B&B…Here’s how it works..

    There are 2 suites that are situated in a 130 year old converted garage at the base of the Kissing Bridge. They have full kitchens, living area, large bedrooms and gorgeous bathrooms. The larger of the 2 suites, The Kissing Bridge suite even has it’s own private patio over looking the river and the bridge.

    I stock your room with FABOOSH local ingredients , fresh breads, pastries, eggs, bacon, fruit, juice, tea, coffee etc…and you make your own breakfast at your leisure..At NO TIME do I ever cook for you…

    You have your own private entrance, you get your own key and you come and go freely. At NO time are you in my home…However you can join me for cocktails on the porch…

    It’s a B&B only better…because you get your privacy and there is no awkward ..”I’m in someones house” stuff…

    The B&B is located in the middle of the St Jacobs, Elmira, Elora triangle in the heart of Mennonite country..So many great things to see and do..

    My new B&B is called, Olde Bridge Place and is located beside the historic Kissing Bridge in West Montrose on the banks of The Grand River. The last covered bridge in Ontario..

    It’s Peerrrrty….

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    So..to celebrate my new adventure I am giving away a 2 night stay in the Kissing Bridge Suite at Olde Bridge Place…

    BUT WAIT…that’s not all…you are about to get SPOILED!

    I am also going to celebrate all the FAB local business I have the pleasure of working with…(shop local)

    Here is what you can win…

    2 Nights stay at Olde Bridge Place in the Kissing Bridge Suite – $370

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    Cocktail reception on the porch sponsored by Innocente Brewing and Rosewood Estates Wines(Priceless Really) $250

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    Vintage milk painted side table from My Vintage Nest – $125

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    Gift Certificate to the FABOOSH Herrle’s Country Farm Market in St Agatha – $50

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    Gift Certificate from the drool worthy Lancaster Smokehouse in Kitchener – $50

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    10 X 6oz Brady’s Meats famous certified Angus beef baseball steaks – $70

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    Hamilton Beach Java Blend coffee brewer/blender – $70

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    AND…..

    Mini photo shoot up to 1.5hrs , 10  images included + printing rights 1 -11X14 print  from CL Buchanan Photo $600 !!!!!

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    TOTAL VALUE –

    $1585 .00 ……….

    AMAZING !!!!

     

     

    HUGE thanks to all the FABOOSH local business that joined me in this AMAZING weekend escape…We LUV our region and want you to join us and see for yourself why it is just a wonderful place to be…CHEERS

    Here is how to Enter…GOOD LUCK and we can’t wait for you to BE OUR GUEST!!
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    Please show your support to all our fab sponsors of this contest by being SOCIAL with them..Like, Pin and share with your friends…CHEERS